Support Services

Stop Workplace Harassment Today

Are you experiencing harassment, bullying, or discrimination at work? We understand how challenging this can be. Such issues can lead to stress, anxiety, and decreased job satisfaction and performance.

The fear of retaliation, lack of support, and uncertainty about addressing the issue can leave you feeling powerless. You might be afraid to go to HR, unsure if your experience warrants their involvement, or worried about setting and holding boundaries.

Confronting your harasser and changing workplace dynamics can be overwhelming, and going to HR carries its own risks. We are sorry you are here, but know that you are not alone.

We Can Help

Someone has foisted a problem on you that you never asked for, but now you need to find a solution.

The BeeMail is designed to help you address workplace issues EARLY, SAFELY and EFFECTIVELY.

We provide a helping hand with the goal of getting the behavior to stop.

By sending an anonymous email to the perpetrator, we will help you bring their behavior to their attention without exposing yourself to risk.

The BeeMail also provides tools and resources to help the offender correct their behavior, promoting a healthier work environment for everyone.

SOLUTION; We Can Help Introducing The BeeMail – Your Path to Workplace Harmony

You Are Not Alone

“I was skeptical at first, but The BeeMail provided a safe and effective way to address the bullying I was facing at work. The situation improved significantly, and I feel much more comfortable at my job now.”
— Jane D.

“Thanks to The BeeMail, I was able to confront the harassment I experienced without fear of retaliation. The resources and information provided in the Sender Support Guide helped me feel more confident and supported.”
— John S.

“Thanks to The BeeMail, I was able to confront the harassment I experienced without fear of retaliation. The resources and information provided in the Sender Support Guide helped me feel more confident and supported.”
— John S.

The BeeMail Difference

Safe & Anonymous: Protect your identity while addressing the issue.
Put Responsibility on the Perpetrator: Shift the burden of change to the offender.
Effective Communication: Directly reach the perpetrator with a clear message.
Supportive Resources: Provide tools to help correct behavior.
Affordable Solution: Only $X per email, ensuring accessibility for everyone.
Comprehensive Documentation: Receive detailed documentation to use if escalation is required.
Positioned as Problem Solver: Viewed as a proactive step to resolve issues rather than creating problems.
Low Risk for Both Parties: Provides space to learn and improve moving forward.

While no option is risk free, sending The BeeMail may disrupt the current dynamic between you and the other party, and start the process toward resolving the issue, and foster greater confidence to speak up for yourself and others.

Your $25 contribution helps move our mission forward faster.

Send The BeeMail Now

  • Complete the Sender Form: email address The BeeMail will be sent to, and the date and time The BeeMail will be sent
  • Make a $25 donation to The Wolf and The Bee
  • A donation reciept will be sent to your email
  • Sender Support Access will be sent to your email

Take Action Now

Workplace issues can escalate quickly. The sooner you address them, the better the outcome will be. Take control of your work environment and promote a healthier, happier workplace with The BeeMail.

FAQs

What is The BeeMail?

The BeeMail is a service designed to address workplace harassment, bullying, and discrimination. The Wolf and The Bee sends The BeeMail (an email), with a warning, to your offender. An assessment and resolution guide is included, to help them improve their behavior moving forward.

Additionally The BeeMail provides you with documentation that the offending party was notified their behavior was inappropriate, along with a guide for improvement.

The service shifts responsibility from you back to the perpetrator to acknowledge and correct their actions.

When should I send The BeeMail?

The BeeMail is a best used when:

  • You want to resolve the issue early, quickly and quietly
  • You need to be able to continue working with this person in the future
  • You don’t feel comfortable speaking directly to the person at this time
  • You would feel comfortable receiving an apology from the recipient 
  • You don’t want to go to your boss or HR right now
  • There is a power imbalance between you and the offending party
  • You witnessed inappropriate behavior and want to be an ally without putting either party at risk
How does The BeeMail work?

When you donate $25, you will fill out an easy three question form, including the recipient email, and the time you want The BeeMail sent. And then The Wolf and The Bee takes over.

The BeeMail is scheduled to be delivered on the date and time you specify. The default time is Friday at 4PM ET to provide a weekend buffer.

You will receive the Sender Support Guide that includes documentation templates, a checklist to identify retaliation, a roadmap with options and support tools for next steps, including scripts, conflict resolution, and escalation options.

Twenty-Four hours after The BeeMail has been sent, a delivery report will be sent to you. This includes the day and time The BeeMail was delivered to the recipient’s email, if there were errors, and if The BeeMail was opened.Save this email in your documentation file.

A survey is sent to you three weeks later.

What does The BeeMail say?

The BeeMail is a general but direct message that first, alerts the offending party to the fact they have engaged in conduct that is not appropriate for the workplace.

It also provides a link to a Resolution Guide to coach them through identify and correct their behavior moving forward.

What issues can The BeeMail address?

The BeeMail addresses workplace harassment, bullying, and discrimination by directly communicating with the offending party and offering tools to help them recognize and change their behavior.

How is The BeeMail different from other workplace harassment solutions?

The BeeMail is a proactive solution, and helps you address the issue at its source, before involving HR. This gives the offending party a chance to make changes that may lead to a quicker and more effective resolution.

6. Is The BeeMail anonymous?

We prioritizes the privacy of both the sender and recipient of The BeeMail. Your name, and any identifying behaviors that could expose you as the sender, are not used when sending The BeeMail.

We use a general, non-specific, and direct email format to ensure your identity is protected.

7. What resources does The BeeMail provide to the offending party?

The BeeMail offers tools and resources to help the offending party understand their behavior, recognize its impact, and make necessary changes to improve their conduct in the workplace.

8. Is HR informed about BeeMail?

The BeeMail service is designed to address the issue directly with the offending party.

The only time HR is noified is if you, the sender, or recipient of The BeeMail chooses to go to HR.

 9. What happens if the person retaliates against me?

A confirmation of delivery report will be sent to you 24 hours after The BeeMail is scheduled. The report confirms The BeeMail was delivered, and if it was was opened. You can use this report as part of your documentation, if you decide to escalate the issue to your HR department.

Additionally, you will receive a Sender Support Toolkit which will include documentation templates, information on identifying escalating or retaliating behavior, and provide a roadmap with options and support tools for next steps, including scripts, conflict resolution, and escalation options.

10. What if I’m not believed?

The BeeMail does not specify the exact behavior, to avoid “She said, He said” disputes and focuses on alerting the offending party to their innappropriate behavior, and guiding them towards correcting future action.

Using The BeeMail helps document the issue, creating a record that can support your case if further action is needed.

11. What if I’m found out?

The BeeMail is designed to protect your identity.

There is always a chance you could be suspected of sending The BeeMail.

You will receive a Sender Support Toolkit which will include documentation templates, information on identifying escalating or retaliating behavior, and provide a roadmap with options and support tools for next steps, including scripts, conflict resolution, and escalation options.

12. Why should I send The BeeMail now?

The BeeMail service offers a low-stress, low-risk, and high-benefit solution.

SendingThe BeeMail can help resolve issues quickly and effectively.

13. Will sending a BeeMail make the situation more hostile?

The BeeMail is designed so the offending party doesn’t feel backed into a corner. Instead it was created to address the issue constructively, focusing on promoting awareness, understanding and improvement.

However, if you experience hostility after sending The BeeMail, it is important to continue documenting all incidents.

You will receive a Sender Support Toolkit which will include documentation templates, information on identifying escalating or retaliating behavior, and provide a roadmap with options and support tools for next steps.

14. What if I don’t see any change after sending The BeeMail?

Continued issues may require additional steps to address the problem effectively.

You will receive a Sender Support Toolkit which will include documentation templates, information on identifying escalating or retaliating behavior, and provide a roadmap with options and support tools for next steps.

15. Can I send another BeeMails if the behavior continues?

No. You will not be able to send The BeeMail to the same email address more than one time.

What are the risks for sending The BeeMail?
  • Anonymity isn’t guaranteed: While The BeeMail does not reference your name or specifics, and only refers to general inappropriate behaviors, your work and company circumstances may reveal that you are the source of The BeeMail.  
  • Escalation may still be required: We can’t control how the recipient will respond. They may not take the warning and retaliate instead. If this is the case, you may have to consider escalating the problem to your supervisor or HR.  
  • Retaliation: Retaliation is a risk regardless of whether you do nothing or you do something. Be aware that sending The BeeMail may speed up a reaction.

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Fear of Retaliation
Lack of Support
Uncertainty on How to Address the Issue
Difficulty in Setting and Holding Boundaries
Risk Associated with Going to HR
Decreased Job Satisfaction
Increased Stress and Anxiety
Affect job security, livelihood